YouMeEveryone

Sometimes how you say something is more important than what was actually said.

People seriously bother me sometimes with the little things they say. I don’t think they mean to be either condescending, rude, mean, judgmental, or offensive at all but the way they say certain things knocks me down a couple notches. I analyze things constantly. I over think. I ponder over the same phrase or thought over and over til it becomes a mutant of it’s original self. So when things aren’t put “properly” and come off a bit offensive, no amount of “I didn’t mean it like that” or “Well you know what I mean” is going to fix it, cause in my head, you’re etched in my memory as the person who said what you said… I just don’t always act on it or mention it out loud.